When Love Leaves, Let Hope Stay
There comes a moment in love when silence speaks louder than words. Not the peaceful kind, but the kind that echoes through the chambers of a heart still holding on. You said goodbye—but your heart didn’t. You still check your phone. You still replay the laughter. You still wonder if they’ll come back.
But love, when it’s real, is not a solo act. It’s two hearts choosing each other—again and again. And when one heart vacates, the other must decide: Do I keep living in the memory, or do I begin to live for myself again?
It’s okay to grieve. It’s okay to miss them. It’s okay to wish things had turned out differently. But it’s not okay to lose yourself in the waiting. You are worth more than unanswered calls and unspoken closure.
So take this time. Not to chase. Not to beg. But to rebuild. To look in the mirror and say, “I am still here. I am still worthy. I am still becoming.”
Let the echo fade. Let the silence settle. And when you’re ready, let your heart beat for you again.
Some goodbyes are loud. They come with tears, with final words, with a door that closes gently behind you. But some goodbyes are quiet. No explanation. No apology. Just absence. And you’re left holding the pieces, trying to solve a puzzle with missing edges.
You replay the last conversation. You wonder what you missed. You ask yourself if you were too much or not enough. But the truth is, closure isn’t always given. Sometimes it’s something you have to create.
Closure isn’t about their explanation. It’s about your decision. To stop waiting for a why. To stop chasing a version of the past that won’t return. To start healing on your terms.
You may never get the answers. But you can still find peace. Not because they made it right, but because you chose to let go of needing them to.
So breathe. Write your ending. And walk forward, not because it’s easy, but because your heart deserves to be whole again.
For your heart to be whole again, you need to give yourself the proper time for healing— Time to find your ending to the last relationship before a new one can ever begin. A new beginning cannot carry the old baggage. The new means exactly that: NEW. So take your time to heal now, so you can truly enjoy the new event that much more.
Take care, dear friend, and GOD bless you and be with you through your pain and healing. And when the time is right, may GOD even bless you with a beautiful NEW beginning again.
MOHLovesAlaska
