Good Tuesday morning friend... Today we are going to get behind the true meaning of the song Sylvia's Mother by Dr. Hook And The Medicine Show... This song is based on a true story, which makes the song that much more intriguing as well as interesting... Enjoy the song as well as the read... Dr. Hook and the Medicine Show was a New Jersey bar band when they were discovered by Ron Haffkine, who had been looking for a band to give voice to Shel Silverstein's songs. If not for that fortuitous meeting, it's entirely possible the world outside the Garden State would have never heard of Dr. Hook. There is no person called "Dr. Hook." Many people think that "the guy in the eye patch" is Dr. Hook, but he's not. That's Ray Sawyer, who lost his right eye in a car accident in the early 70s. Ray sang a lot of the funnier songs that they did, and he was a cut-up on stage. The reason I love the band beyond all reason, though, is Dennis Locorriere, whose soulful voice is heard on most of their ballads and hit songs. I've always believed it was Dennis' voice that made Shel Silverstein fall in love with the band. It was Dennis who sang their first big hit, Sylvia's Mother. It was a song, filled with pathos, that told the story of a rejected suitor calling, trying to reconnect with his lover before it's too late. The whole song is a conversation between the suitor and the girl's mother. As it turns out, that song is based on a true story from Shel Silverstein's life. This being the internet age, there is now a video up on YouTube that features not only the song, but also an interview with the real-life Mom and Sylvia, telling the story from their perspective: Last night, I mentioned that Shel had always seemed lonely on some unreachable level. I had not seen this video yet (thank you, Judith Baldwin for telling me about it) but it fits right in with that sentiment. If Shel really did fall in love with Sylvia and lost her forever, it could color every other relationship he ever had. It's also possible that I might be sensitive to what he was feeling because I recognized that in myself. I lost the girl I felt I was intended to be with, and no matter how I tried, I could never forget her. I had a sense of melancholy that was a constant guest on the inside, although I did my best not to show it on the outside. Seeing this video, I feel even more compassionate toward Shel. As many successes as he had, it's possible he carried the same sort of internal sadness around with him. I will write more in the future about Dennis Locorriere, because I think he is one of the greatest vocalists of the 20th century, and it's almost criminal that he is nearly forgotten today. For now, I have to wonder... are there other story songs out there with this kind of video attached? I think I have a new way to waste ten or twelve hours this weekend. Thank goodness there was no YouTube in the 70s, or I never would have graduated from high school. (Source comes from https://www.goodreads.com/author_blog_posts/3057317-the-story-behind-sylvia-s-mother) Take care and GOD bless...
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